Three Things
A salsa hack, a new novel, a go-to recipe for the potluck, tailgate, or...tonight's dinner!
Greetings eaters and readers! Hope you all had a nice weekend. Now that our daughters have returned to college we are planning some wild nights here on the home front, which is to say, we've made a bunch of dinner reservations, including this one for our anniversary in October. Last week we hit the comfortingly perfect Frankie’s (above) with our friends Todd and Anne, and we are on Resy Notify for Laser Wolf pretty much every night in the fall. (I do find I almost always have success with that notify option.) In other news: I am having maddeningly frustrating issues with my Dinner: A Love Story email address, so if you’ve reached out to me there and haven’t heard back, that is why. I’m working on the problem, but in the meantime, if it’s urgent, please message me on instagram or use my personal email if you have it. Without further ado, your Three Things….
1. A Pasta Salad to Get Excited About
Hot take alert: I don’t know if I’ve ever eaten a pasta salad and thought, Wow, this is a great pasta salad. Have you? They always seem to be just too pasta-heavy and…room temperature-y. Well, after trying this antipasto-themed one from Odette Williams’s wonderful Simple Pasta last week, I am on my way to changing my mind. Why? Well, for starters, the noodle she mixes in with the other ingredients is bite-size ditalini, which means, as she writes in the recipe intro, "every time you take a bite…you’ll get all the big, bold flavors of an antipasto platter—salami, chickpeas, fontina, pepperoncini—in one mouthful.” She’s right, I found myself eating it like cereal with a spoon to optimize the flavor-explosion effect. And since the dish is actually delicious at room temp, I picture it being a regular in my rotation for potlucks, tailgates, picnics, and no-brainer weeknight dinners. You can head over to DALS for the recipe.
2. Salsa Fresca Hack
When you want salsa fresca but you don’t feel like doing all that chopping, just toss some fresh chopped tomatoes with a spoonful or two of store bought salsa, like I did last night when I made migas tacos for my mother-in-law. (Page 96, The Weekday Vegetarians or here.) This hack reminds me so much of the Fake-it-Don’t-Make it column I used to edit at Real Simple eight million years ago. Remember that all-time classic: Ravioli Lasagna?
3. Lucy Barton Fans Rejoice
I will devour any Elizabeth Strout novel no matter what, but her latest, Lucy by the Sea, feels like it was written expressly for me. It takes place in Maine, where Strout’s recurring hero, Lucy Barton, is riding out the pandemic with her ex-husband, William. That would be enough of a draw for Lucy fans*, but what makes this one special, at least for me, is the way Strout captures what it feels like to be the mother of grown children. Breaking News! Just because your kids are out of the house, does not mean you don’t worry about them. Mixed in with the anxiety, though, is all the joy and beauty, too. I nearly wept when I read this paragraph below which takes place when Lucy’s daughters surprise her with a visit after being apart for months:
I have never seen anything as beautiful as those girls. Oh man did I feel this! No one writes the way Elizabeth Strout does.
Have a great week!
Jenny
*You don’t have to have read the other Lucy Barton books to love this one.
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oh my glob, ravioli lasagna! i remember making one from a rachel ray cookbook in college (early 2000s) with alfredo sauce and artichokes and spinach that was actually really good. (my then boyfriend was a vegetarian and it was one of the few things we could both eat and enjoy and was easy to make.)
speaking of college, i left RI for college in boston in 2001 and i remember my mom sobbing and waving from the park that runs down the middle of commonwealth ave in back bay as i left on my orientation tour. i was only an hour away! so embarrassing! and i never, ever liked being away from home as a kid. and yet she was acting like she would never see me again. i had a pretty miserable freshman year and i think i was home that very first weekend, and every weekend after that. but that first weekend, i took the train and didn't tell anyone i was coming. my mom is VERY easily scared so after i got home (while my parents were still at work) i put a sticky note on the door so she wouldn't have a heart attack that "someone" was in the house when she got home. i remember this all so clearly because my dad said when my mom saw that note she was "happier than a pig in shit."
fast forward to last christmas. i always get my parents cards and this one was about how christmas for me is being home. (i have lived on my own since 17 but i always, always come home for xmas and still consider my parents house "home.") it was such a cute card and perfect for us, but i didn't expect my mom to start crying at the breakfast table. and she told me she always hoped she could raise kids who would want to come home again. and of course i was like, what are you talking about? why wouldn't i? but i never stopped to think that it's not something every parent gets, nor is it something every kid gets, and how lucky we are. and then we were all crying! haha, anyway, i'm happy for you, and for everyone, who gets to have that. 🏡💚
Also: You've inspired me to start a one-woman Elizabeth Strout reading group.