Vanilla Pudding with Extras

As loyal readers probably know, we here in Dinner: A Love Story Land love our homemade pudding. I started making it when the girls were little as an easy way to get them to "drink their milk" -- the recipe calls for 2 cups of organic milk -- but over the years we've adultified it (yes, adultified is a word...as of today) with some dare-I-say dinner-part…